How to keep your relationship alive

Game

Constructing a passion wheel is an excellent way to try new thing. Draw a circle on a large piece of paper and divide it into 12 pieces to create a pie chart. Then take turns writing a romantic or sexual activity in each slice." You each get to fill six slices with the activities of your choosing, then pick one every time you have sex. Or you could try a very adult take on a high school favorite, share some wine and when you're done, let the bottle do the choosing for you.

Love Vows

Figure out what your partner wants more of and commit to doing it (as long as it's something you're comfortable with, of course). These promises don't only have to be physical! You can definitely make them about emotional needs as well, like telling each other why you're grateful for the relationship at least once a week.

Check On Each Other

Even if you spend hours on end with your S.O., you still might not be connecting with each other. Sitting down together for at least 10 minutes a day just to see how the other person is doing. "This may not sound very sexy, It's simple, because this move sends the message that you're invested in keeping your bond strong even though life can get chaotic.

Know Your Partner

The easiest way to do it is by asking each other questions that go there. You can get inspiration from a cool interactive documentary that records couples asking each other questions like, "Do you really think I'm the best for you right now? Why?" and "Do you feel we're living up to the dreams we had when we started this relationship

Activities That Help You Fall In Love

Start a list of things you used to do together that brought both of you pleasure. As you move from constantly feeling head over heels back to regular life, you may have let some of those plans fade into the past. Aim to do at least once per month so you have a steady stream of dates to look forward to.

Try New Things
Especially if some of them are a mix of terrifying and exhilarating. "When these new activities are enjoyable, that tends to increase your attachment to each other, and you have more in common to help further build the 'glue' of your relationship. Combined with the rush of adrenaline you get during a thrill together—reaching the top of the roller coaster, successfully deploying your parachute, realizing that fried grasshoppers are quite delicious—your stomach might swoop in more ways than one.
Make Out
"Kissing is like facial intercourse. It's one of the most intimate things we can do as human beings." Unfortunately, it's also one of the first things to slip when you've been with someone for a while. Putting in the effort to do more than a peck-and-go every morning can help, but you can up the ante by making out like teenagers and not having sex until hours later. Feel free to clue your partner in, otherwise they might just get confused or feel hurt by your refusal to have sex.